Tips On How To Make Your Relationship Work
By Pelumi Olaleye
Have you ever wondered why there are so many broken marriages and heart breaks in today’s world? Aside the fact that technology has over taken our lifestyle, most people going into a relationship do not understand that it is an exchange of feelings.
Feelings that needs to be reciprocated between parties. When feelings are not exchanged in a relationship, the relationship becomes sour ,which is mostly caused by not paying attention to each other’s needs.
There are several reasons that could lead to marriage failure and these include:
Lack of communication Communication is a key ingredient for a successful relationship. A good relationship occurs when you talk to your spouse about your feelings, ambitions and plans . When there is a good communication in a relationship, emotions are easily expressed, both parties would understand themselves.
Avoid keeping secrets
To have a successful relationship, both parties should avoid keeping secrets from each other. Not being able to tell your spouse certain things have could lead to break-ups and lack of trust .
In a relationship, trust is vital and very delicate. Trust is having confidence on the quality of your spouse. Confidence in relation to the psychological behaviour of your partner. Lack of trust kills a relationship easily. When trust is missing in a relationship, doubts sets in.
To make your relationship work, always apologize to your partner when wrong. Accept that your partner feels hurt due to your actions and apologize regardless of your perspective on your actions.
Both partners must learn to accommodate each other, because we all come from different backgrounds, thereby making different individuals have a different perspective on issues.
Always remember that communication is the bedrock of a relationship.